Tuesday, November 10, 2009
What Would Swamp Walking Woman Have Done?
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Sweet Potato Suppers
Monday, July 13, 2009
Simple Web Tech for Writers
Good Review of Red Hen's Daughters
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Observation
A friend asks, "Can we believe anything, or is it better to believe nothing except what we experience ourselves?"
The question got me thinking about observation and self-trust. For much of my life I didn't trust my own observations--I had been thoroughly invalidated for stating some of these out loud. I thought I had to have a guru to set me straight. People would say, "You have within you everything you need to know." I'd look around inside my mind and say, "No I don't. Nothing but confusion there." So I think observation comes in two steps and the first is to rehabilitate our own ability to observe. The second is to observe with integrity and courage. And not to get scared off by second hand warnings the purpose of which is to scare and nullify us.
For me it was a matter of figuring out who to trust and even just how far to trust them, hopefully long enough to get my own feet under me. I tend to trust hopeful things and mistrust downers. Sometimes I overshoot and have to revise my trust of someone and something. I'm forever grateful to The Farm and to Stephen and to each and every person I lived with or worked with on The Farm. I was able to bring myself up to a level of awareness I don't think I would have achieved without that experience. By the time I saw the limits of our vision and practice, I was able to sort it out without throwing away the sweet truth of what we lived. Since then I have grown my powers of observation and refined my search while still maintaining the integrity of our vision. We spiritual hippies made a powerful difference.
Nothing is true for you unless you have observed it yourself. Love, Patricia
Patricia/Trish Lapidus
Writing Consultant, Life Coach, Author
Including Sweet Potato Suppers, a New eBook
and Long Awaited, Swamp Walking Woman
http://swampwalkingwoman.blogspot.com
Friday, May 29, 2009
Everyone Can Write
This is my family and writing blog. It's informal. I invite your comments.
I am a writer and an encourager of writing. Whether you keep a journal for yourself alone or write professionally, I am cheering. I love words and all we are able to do with words.
This is the cover of my book of poems, Red Hen's Daughters, available from amazon.com.
It has never been easier to get feedback from other writers on the net. My latest discovery is a site called thenextbigwriter. People post their work and read and critique for one another. The standard of encouragement and good guidance is very high. Before that I found divinecaroline. This is just to name two. There are more.
Then, when your work is ready, you no longer have to court a traditional publisher if you don't want to. Even if you do publish with a traditional house, you still have to do your own marketing. So, I'm learning how to market my books--and learning what people want to read. There is nothing worth writing unless readers find it worth reading. I will shortly have specific guidance to offer about publishing and marketing your products.
Tell me what your interests are, what you want to read about. Contact me at
patricialapidus@sbcglobal.net
I will send you a gift. Write "gift" in the subject line so I won't miss your email. Love, Trish
Let's Get to Know One Another
And now the CD. Available soon from kunaki.
This is a text CD created with samples from my books. I took the cover picture during cherry blossom season from the street where I live . In the background is West Rock Ridge where I love to hike. The state park offers miles of trails, some up to the top, others around Wintergreen lake.
This is a "you can do this, too" CD.
